Being on top?

Question

My boyfriend says he wants me to be on top next time we have sex....I've never been on top before because I've never felt comfortable enough. I'm afraid that I won't do it right or that he'll dislike what he sees when I'm on top because my body will be completely visible. Any advice to make things easier?

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Keep the lights completely off if you are uncomfortable with him seeing you & at least try it out. Some people like it, for me it's very painful as my husband is more than average and I'm a very petite girl. (I still put myself through it from time to time, just to make him happy ) but you never know unless you try!

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If you're uncomfortable with him seeing your body like that, you can talk to him about it and keep your shirt on, and/or turn off/dim the lights. It's just one of those things that you have to get used to, honestly. I'm sure you won't be great it it your first time, but after a while you'll get the hang of it. It kinda just comes naturally after you're getting used to it :) and make sure you talk to him and ask him to help guiding you if you need to.

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I've never been on top before either. But my best advice?? Have him show you and help you along. Nothing like getting the best advice from your partner.

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My boyfriend loved teaching me how to ride. It's a very sexy and passionate moment. Don't be afraid or let your insecurities take over.

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The first time I was on top my boyfriend held my hips and moved them until I caugh the rhythm and could continue doing it myself. Just tell him to show you what he wants you to do

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Close your eyes and lean forward on his chest  most likely at first he will grab your ass and like kinda lift you up a bit and go to town lol

Being on top?

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