20weeks tomorrow...still can't feel baby

Jessica
I'll be 20 weeks tomorrow with my 3rd baby (my last baby was over 10 years ago) and I have felt a few flutters every now and then but it's not consistent. We've had ultrasounds and it shows him laying balled up and he eventually stretched out. I just wish I could feel him moving more and kicking. Has anyone else been this far along and not felt consistent strong movement yet?