Does your kids have different dads?

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I think how /who with our kids are conceived isnt as important as loving them when they arrive. Cherish them and be the best mama u can.  That's what counts. Don't feel guilty.  Feel proud u have made your kids into who they are.  When they return love and hugs u know u are doing a great job!

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I have 3....trying for #4. My ex husband and I had 2, I was raped by a "friend" and have #3, my husband doesn't have any so we are trying. 
I was always real ashamed that my kids have different Dads and I the way I'm judged for it.  I'm still ashamed,  still feel like a tramp. Not many know how #3 came about and they assume that since we are cordial, that it was willing.  I will live with that shame forever before my daughter knows.

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Don't beat yourself up about it! Lots of people have kids with different dads. It's just what happens to some people. As long as you love them and care for them what should it matter? I know someone with 4 kids from 4 dads and she only looks after 1 (the one with current boyfriend) her mum has two and the father has one. That's not fair but your story is a different kettle of fish. Your obviously doing a great job so do what makes you happy and screw every one who has a bad opinion 💜

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I have 2 kids with different father's, my first her father and I were dating, then married when she was 11 months, then divorced a few years later. She is almost 7. I recently had my second with my current husband.

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Personally no, i feel judgey for saying this but i personally don't want multiple baby daddies. So even IF my fiancé and I parted ways (no matter what reason) before i have the final child i want, i would not have more kid's to another man. That, and i love my fiancé so dearly that if we seperated or he died or anything like that, i would never move on, because no one could replace him or live up to how amazing he is. We have 2 son's and are trying for our 3rd and lucky last baby.

Does your kids have different dads?

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