Just venting...

My boyfriend is part of a culture where the boys are really attached to their mothers, and part of a culture that doesn't like their children dating people of my ethnicity and culture.
For a year my BF didn't even tell his parents about me and it was really hurtul. For a year and a half his mom and I didn't meet, but it's been a really slow process to finally be accepted as his GF by her and his dad. I still feel like I'm being watched or judged when I'm over. I know this may sound petty to you, but because he didn't want to hurt his parents feelings he didn't tell them about me for that year/year and a half and even now (2 years later) he hasn't put me as his GF on Facebook so as to not ruin his parents reputation because God forbid their son date ME. He's had one profile pic with him and me, but his mom's bday just passed and he wrote some meaningful post about her and made his profile with her.
I feel like he's always going to love her more and regard me and my desires less. I feel like he's always going to cater to her and care more about what she wants more than what I do. It sucks because I love him, but IDK if this is worth it. I feel like he doesn't value me and prioritize me like a boyfriend/potential husband should. 
For reference, he's 25, I'm 23.