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My sex life a family issue?
So I recently kind of moved out of my parents house, I moved in with my sister but it's only for the summer. And so I've been meeting new guys and having them come over from time to time, I've had like two guys over. And so my sister that I currently live with found out that I had a guy over once and she actually heard everything that went on. At first I felt bad about it but then I thought about how she did the same thing like last month. So I guess her hearing her younger sister having sex really upset that she decided to tell our parents. Now let me tell you that I was going to tell my mom but when the time was right, I felt like that should've been my business to tell. So my parents are furious at me for "giving myself away" to just any guy. But this guy that they know about wasn't my first time, and they won't know about it. My dad is saying stuff like "well if you're gonna give it up that easy you may as well make money from it and go sell it" when he said that it really hurt me, I just couldn't believe that he would say that to me just because I'm not a virgin anymore. I just wanted to tell him that I'm sorry for being human and doing things that's just a way of life. He's so mad he doesn't even want me to move back in when summer is over. He told me to look at my options for staying on campus in the fall. And my older sisters are trying to kick me out the apartment too because they're saying I have no respect for doing what I did.
Now will I be in the wrong if I just cut everyone off? Stop talking to them, since they don't seem to care where I'll be staying. My sisters said I have to be out by Tuesday or they're taking all my stuff and just throwing it out.
I'm just really confused because when my sisters started having sex no one went and told on them, nor did it cause this big of a deal with our family. This has been one of the biggest fights are family has been in and it's all because I decided to have sex. I just don't understand it. Ladies help me what should I do?