Would you be ok with your SO hanging out with a woman he used to have sex with?

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Some additional info: 
This girl is a long time friend of his and his family. They hooked up on numerous occasions but were never in a relationship. They hang out both in a group setting and one on one. My question is more in regards to them hanging out one on one.

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No, I wouldn't be ok with it. 
No no no no. If it was me going to hang out with a guy I used to have sex with, I'd want my boyfriend/fiancé/husband to tell me that he's not ok with it.
Also you may not be ok with it, but you can still let him go, maybe join their little get together, and see where that goes?

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Hell nooooo !

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I trust my husband. Completely. I have no idea how many people he has been with in the past or who they were (except for his ex wife of course). But I'm sure when we go to the graduation party of his best friends son today, there will be a woman there he's slept with. And I don't care at all. He has a female friend who likes to golf, and sometimes the two of them go golfing. My gut tells me they slept together back in high school but I'm not sure if they did. Either way, she's been in a relationship faithfully for 17 years. I'm not worried. I wouldn't be worried if I knew he and another woman slept together and were going to hang out. I'm not naive, I just don't get the feelings of suspicion or jealously out anything.

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I don't like seeing movies in the theater and my husband goes with a girl he had a very brief relationship with. 
I know they had sex 2 or 3 time but it didn't work out. This was long before he met me and I've just never felt threatened by her.

They see each other every few months and she super nice. I don't mind if they grab a beer Or go see a film. He has never given me a reason not to trust him and neither has she. People are capable of self-control.

I'm also really really good friends with my ex of five years. We get lunch and our dogs (who used to live together) have play dates. We trade dog sitting. But I have zero attraction to him beyond friendship. I imagine with just the same with my husband and his buddy.

If something is telling you it's not right- trust your gut. But it's also very possible for two adults to have a plutonic friendship and self-control even if there is a bit of history there.

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Hell no way!! 😬

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My opinion is no but it depends on what you feel comfortable with. I don't think many people would be comfortable with the situation. 
How would your SO feel about you hanging out with someone you had slept with?

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group, yeah sure, alone, hell no

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This is an ongoing problem with my SO and I. He has a best friend that he's had sex with in the past and she still has feelings for him. He thinks this is OK and I don't. He hangs out with her a lot and it bothers me every time and he doesn't care, lol. I can't just tell him not to be friends with her though.

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If my husband had any female friends I wouldn't have an issue. But when he told them that he was getting married to me and invited them to the wedding because they had been friends for a long time. Strangely only 3 people he invited out of 20 showed up and that was my brother in law (who for ordained so he could marry us.), our brother's dad, and our nephew. There were three that had legitimate reasons why they couldn't come. Everyone else just didn't say anything, never showed up etc.

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I don't think I would be comfortable with it but I don't think you can prevent this from happening if she's a long time friend with him and his family. I would just ask if I could meet her or start going with him some. If he has a problem with it then I would be worried. Good luck!

Would you be ok with your SO hanging out with a woman he used to have sex with?

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