It's awsome to see all the mommy's to be are going to have a baby shower. It's awsome and fun!! Especially for ur first child. Who has had a couple of kids and is not having a shower. I had one for my first boy my second one I didn't and I'm having a girl now. My relatives told me they want to have a shower for me but I refuse . I just feel weird about having multiple showers . Anyone else the same.