Feeling stuck

Daryl
My brother in law (husband's brother) took his own life a week and a half ago. He had come home to find his wife with another man at 3am in the morning....he had been struggling financially over the last month to provide for his wife and 4 boys and we know this probably put him over the edge to see her with someone else. My husband has struggled with depression before and is handling it better than I thought but he is devastated of course. This happened right around the time I could have implanted but due to everything I'm not surprised I didn't get pregnant. I'm thinking I just want to stop doing opks and see where things go from there....we have been trying for 6 months. I am struggling to help my husband cope with the loss of his awesome brother. Has anyone gone through a similar situation?