No Positive OPKs but having pain???!?

Question

Hi ladies!!

I have called my doctor, nurse on call, and read everything I can and I still can't figure out what's wrong with me!!!!!

To get right to it. I MMC on 6/3 and went through one good cycle that was only 1 or 2 days off from what I would have expected. We planned on trying for our rainbow baby this month!

But ever since AF ended I've been getting pain in only what I can describe as my uterus. It feels extremely similar to how I felt when I was pregnant. Slight pain if I'm moving around too much and almost constant pressure.

It's this cruel feeling because I'm not getting positive OPKs and I took 2 pregnancy tests and those were duds too. Today is supposed to be my prime BD day!!

WTF!!! I'm so confused and I can't find anything to calm my nerves. Every negative is making me cry!

So sorry this was such a long post! I'm just so worried. Any information you ladies have would be extremely appreciated! I don't know where else to turn except going in for another extremely uncomfortable ultrasound.

Thank you all so much! All my love and BABYDUST!!!

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I would ask your doctor to see if you have endometriosis! This is what I have and the pain is really bad with it.

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I'm also getting cramps that feel like when I was pregnant. Could you be testing too early?

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I don't want to upset you, but sometimes honesty from someone in your shoes is the BEST remedy. I'll share my painful and perhaps a tad "crazy" experiance last month. We miss carried in april, had regular period in may. In june i started having prego symptoms. Vivid dreams, emotional, and sleeping on my side  which i notice right away when pregnant. My pregnancy test were negative, and i knew i was pregnant. I thought maybe tubal or something was wrong. I mean, i was 100%. Went to dr and she looked at everything else, saying negative test must be constipation. She never said that the mind is a VERY POWERFUL thing. After a day or two of thinking the dr was crazy, kind of like I felt at the misscarriage, like this isn't happening. I started googling and found something on false pregnancy or phamtom pregnancy. After crying my eyes out, i finally thought perhaps my worry or prego thoughts were to blame. I finally relaxed, thinking that my stress wasn't good for my mental state...the next day i started my period. I don't want to take your hope because you could be off on your timing. But if you are like me, you might just want it SO BAD. RELAX, and understand where you are mentally, damaged like me and feeling a tad desperate to be pregnant. This is July, and we are now 4 weeks!! I kind of think i needed that month to ensure i could handle another mc if it happened. Please don't be hurt, just wanted to share what i went through, I thought i was going crazy😂

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