has anyone else not been physically attracted to their SO?

Question

So I've been dating this guy almost a month, and he's easily the sweetest guy I've ever met and he treats me really well, but I don't know how physically attracted I am to him. All my friends and everyone like him and say we're cute together, does it make me shallow to think that i may not be as physically attracted to him as I should be??

Can physical attraction stem from emotional attraction? I don't wanna lead him on but I don't wanna lose him either. 😫

Answer

In my opinion if u don't wanna kiss someone then it's going nowhere.  Maybe try a kiss and check for sparks??

Answer

Physical attraction can definitely stem from emotional attraction! That doesn't mean that it will, though. Before I dated my boyfriend, I had no physical attraction whatsoever. Then as we started getting closer and talking more, I started to become attracted to him and I started to fall in love with him. Maybe you're just taking things too fast with this guy.

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my roommate told me that she wouldnt be with anyone that she wasnt physically attracted to because then she couldnt have sex lol it was a topic that came up last night because this guy wanted to be more than friends with her and she isnt physically attracted to him and therefore feels no urge to be physical with him.

has anyone else not been physically attracted to their SO?

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