Someone Correct me if I'm wrong here, but am I Christian or not?

I just got bashed, AGAIN, for being a "fraud" and not Christian. Frankly I'm pretty damn sick of it. So here's a list of crap to help you decide that I am or you think I'm a fraud too. I know this is personal crap but grill me. I'm posting anon so it's not like I'm asking for anything personal. These are things that have brought on those comments.

I grew up in a Baptist house, but I'm only Christian now I don't follow a particular view of it.

I don't go to church but believe I don't need to. I have never found a church that I feel I belong to. Plus there's too many hateful and hypocritical people in so many of them, you can try to ignore it but it gets so bad you just cant sit and play along any more.

I have friends who are LGBT and have been in relationships with people like that. I don't think they are going to be "frying in hell" any more than anyone else who's sinned ever, however. All sin is the same, people just cherry pick what to hate more depending on where you live. Love your neighbor, right? Hate the sin not the sinner, right? But no apparently I'm just some confused girl in a "rebellious relationship" and I'll "face eternal death the way I'm going". Not a almost 30 year old woman who wasn't born yesterday.

I've been saved. I pray everyday usually in the form of formal prayer or small casual ones. I believe in Jesus and God and that they love me, us and forgive us for our stupid bullshit if your just ask and are really sorry.

I haven't read the bible completely. What can I say? Some of it is obviously some guy at some point jotting something down that benefits men over women or their personal preferences.

I try to be nice to everyone because that's what God says to do, forgive him like he says to do, love them like he said to do. If someone isn't hurting anyone then I don't see a problem with them.

Other stupid crap that brings on these comments are that I eat meat but believe in ethical animal treatment, love scary stories, aren't interested in having any kids, I think both genders should be treated equally, I am not 100% traditional, I think it's okay for men to cry and know they can be raped, I believe in over population and that it's a problem for everyone.

So what do you think I am, just guessing? Comment why. Constructive criticism is a good thing.