I will never be able to understand how I know a women who are abusing street drugs, get pregnant, not know about it, and give birth to a perfectly healthy baby, with no prenatal care and this is my 3rd misscarriage doing everything right... Clean as a whistle, always have been, loving and safe home, clean environment and my baby dies and I get to feel like I'm falling apart while they half ass take care of their miracle that I would have killed to have. It just doesn't seem fair.