My sons name

So I'm having a little boy and my boyfriend and I decided to make him a junior, of bourse meaning he will be named after my boyfriend! Nobody in my family likes my boyfriend or his name. They've stated multiple times "it's too ethnic/ghetto." His name will be Juwan Willock Jr., which is different, however that is my sons father and I don't see anything wrong with naming our son after his father. Now my family is telling me that they're going to call him Aiden WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY NO WHERE IN HIS NAME. I just don't know how to properly handle this situation without completely flipping out on my entire family. Because honestly it's starting to hurt me and my boyfriends feelings and I especially don't want my child to grow up thinking his name is wrong or that his father is a bad person due to my family's shenanigans!