Really scared can someone help?

Question

So it's my nans 59th birthday on the 10th August and I'm going home for her birthday but my boyfriend won't let me. He doesn't let me do anything.

So I've decided to stay at home when I go home but I'm scared?!? My plan is to go home change my number and not stay at mine maybe at my cousins or something because he has my address?

Does anyone else have any ideas? I just really need to get away. A friend of mine says he will come get me if he doesn't let me but I don't want to cause anything instead of trying myself. I've tried plenty of times but he has just threatened to cause things between my family or to do something else and gets his sister involved that threatens me too?

I'm very scared I'm only 20. What should I do? Please help!

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Oh no that sounds bad. Can you get a restraing order on him? You're too young to be in this situation so get out. You're doing the right thing x

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You're doing the right thing by planning on leaving. That's not healthy for anyone to be in a controlling relationship. I would just go to your Nanas birthday, because 1. she's family and family comes first. 2. all of your family is going to be there to proctect you from him. And if he has the damn nerve to go after yoo with his nutty sis, I know your family, friends, and cop would be there for you to make sure you're going to be safe. I do hope you leave him soon. And I do hope everything go wells.

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Move home, change all your info, and if he finds ways to harass you get a restraining order and honestly I would recommend a gun for your home. If he's that controlling to the point of basically kidnapping you to make you stay with him then you need to protect yourself.

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Keep any threatening messages etc and if u block all ways to contact u and u still get any trouble u should go to the police.

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You need to pack ur stuff and leave. The minute u get home put a restraining order against ur bf. So he won't come close to u. Don't change ur #. Just block him and don't answer any unknown numbers.

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You need to have a plan set in place before you leave him, then get a restraining order if he is threatening you.

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Is get a temporary restraining order and file for a perm ant one  and leave him . Sounds like you're in an abusive relationship. You don't need to ASK permission to see your family!

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Save any proof of abuse or threats for use in court. & be careful with your phone, I'd be worried about him finding you having conversations about leaving. If you're staying til the 10th just play it cool & act like all is well & you'll be back. Then let your family know when you get there that you need them & their help to get away from him. Be careful! But please get out!

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Get yourself out of the situation as quickly as possible as it could get seriously dangerous fast. Surround yourself with as many supportive people as possible and let everyone know what is going on in case he would try to show up or try to get info on you. Change your number and block him in every way possible. Please just be safe and don't be scared to get the cops involved if you have to!!❤️

Really scared can someone help?

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