Love my hubby but...

My hubby and have been together since I was 16 I'm now 29 we are very much in love ...when I was really young he always told me he didn't want to get married and do didn't want to have any more children he had children when he was sixteen and he's 9 years older than me. At the time I didn't care cuz I didn't want children either , but As I Grew Older I did want children. Finally three years ago him and I got married after being together 11 years and recently in April Welcomed our first baby girl, he is so in love with her ..but of course things get harder he has made some comments that have hurt my feelings like "this is crazy, & I love her and love spending time with her but I'm not a family man , I have no interest in doing family things" ETC he even has went as far as telling me "well I know you can't be surprised I drilled this in your head for years but you wanted kids and it's not her fault I agreed to this.blag blah blah... I love him so much and my daughter but it hurts my feelings. I think it's a form of mental abuse cause he mentions it at least once a week on how he misses his old life, misses it just me and him misses Sleeping in the same bed eating dinner having no responsibilities and other words. I just needed some advice I know we're going to stay married I know things will get better but I wonder if anybody is going through something similar. He's an awesome dad but I know he's unhappy such a big change in a way it's like we're both going through post partom.