My bf and I have been together almost 2 years.

In October 2015 I caught him on okcupid talking to another woman. Albeit the ppl he was looking at were on the other side of the world.

We worked through it.

May, he went on it again. Not his picture in the profile and only briefly talked to one person.

We worked through it.

We broke up in June for 10 days. Back on okcupid again. Whatever.

We got back together and have been trying to work it out.

Well fast forward to yesterday. He left his phone at my place. Curiosity got the best of me and I looked at his Facebook messages. And again.....he talked to his ex so nasty when we were broke up. We were broken up so whatever. It hurt and it made me I'll, she wasn't having it for the most part, but on FRIDAY he was talking to some girl on there trying to get her to talk dirty to him.

He's never physically cheated, but to me this isn't far off in my eyes. It's blatantly disrespectful. He has betrayed my trust over and over and has no respect for me or our relationship.

I know breaking up is what most people would do. However, there are children involved. Although they're not biologically his, he's the only father they know.

What the hell do I do?

I'm so mad at him. I'm so hurt. I'm just so many things. I'm 31 and not getting any younger. I don't have time for these games!

He has a porn problem. This is coming from me, someone who doesn't give a crap about porn for the most part, but he has a horrible porn problem