We can't get it in?

Question

So me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex many times. I am always very calm, and very aroused. I understand the fact that it will be painful. But it hurts to the point that my eyes are watering and I'm practicing clawing whatever is around me and clenching my teeth in pain. Is there any advice to help make my first experience a little bit better?

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You need to be more warmed up, get him to get you suuuper wet, and slowly just inch him in. And then back out, and back in, slowly. I've noticed that helps with me! Just take your time!

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Maybe there isnt enough wetness. try to use a lube. Or if you like the idea of giving him a jb (just for a bit to make it wet) that would help too. go slow and enjoy it. 😉

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I feel your pain. The first time I had sex I almost asked him to stop but really if you keep going it will start to hurt less as you go on

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I went through this and all I can say is when it happened i was very ready and I think the first couple of tries helped my tolerance for the pain. I wasn't nervous by then I wanted to get it over with. It helps if your on top because your in control that way. Also he may be too big and make sure hes not forcing it in.

We can't get it in?

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