OK ladies so I tried talking to my husband about splitting n he refuses to let me go. He still says he doesn't know if he loves me or not anymore. He specifically said he feels for me like anyone out there. Doesn't have me n doesn't know if he love me. I told him it is time to go separate ways. He refuses n says I need to change then he will change. He said it took years for him to feel this way n it will take years for him to slowly change when he sees the difference in me. So I told him what happened between us changed me also n that he's being selfish not considering how I felt through the issues we were going through. How do I fix it, how do I love this person, how will love come back if it's gone, is that even possible. I suggested that we both try to change ourselves n not each other n try to improve us that way I still got a noooo you need to change then I will change. Maybe be my love will change him. I just don't know at this point Cuz he won't let me go. Please help me ladies what to do?