I'm due at the end of August and really feeling it with my toddler in hyper drive.  My MIL has had heart issues recently.  My hubs grandpa is currently in the ER for a heart blockage.  My hubs uncle is in hospice.  My hubs aunt is having a major surgery a few weeks before my due date.   Everyone is doing really poorly and this isn't a family of just fat people who didn't take care of themselves.  90% of the issues are genetic and have long been a problem even when they were all kids.  It's stressing me out big time.   I'm pretty sure we are left with bringing the toddler to the delivery room since everyone is doing so poorly :(  I just want a healthy family! My side of the family lives far away and thankfully they are healthy, but I really love my hubs side and hate all the suffering.