I need some honest opinions here.  I have a one month old baby, FTM, and I pretty much spend every day at my house on the couch watching tv. I take a shower almost every day, which I consider a win, but otherwise I am busy breast feeding, burping, changing and taking care of our little fussy "happy spitter."  My husband is a VERY active guy and now feels like he is in lock down mode since we had a baby. He says I never want to go anywhere or do anything with the baby. In my defense its 100 degrees here. He also asked me today if I wanted to go see a movie in theatres with our one month old. I don't know what to do. Is it normal to go out and do loads of stuff when your baby is a month old? What are other moms doing? Is my husband being unreasonable? Need some advice.