So I told my granny who is close to.me than my mom is I want you go dress shopping with me she said couldn't not feeling well. That fine I understand that so she tells me wish you would wait. I said am happy she great never been this way n we are ready. She goes I hope u didn't tell anyone . Don't tell no one. Don't put it on Facebook . It hurt my feelings really bad. I am 30 I have been out closet since sixteen. Most people knew or were suspicious before then. I have been on my own for a while I don't ask for anything. A lot people in my family support and love me I mean took some a while but once saw I am still me they got over it. My auntie text me says she told you not tell anyone . I said getting married I m grown I'm not about hide for no one she didn't raise me to be spineless. I won't start now all do is give to everyone . This my day and I'm happy people are happy for me. She says they shouldn't be my kids won't come I said both kid are grown n support me try and stop them but come December 9 guess where they'll be at my wedding that's where. I don't need anyone's approval .I am not being disrespectful or rude but I won't be a coward either I won't send you guys an invitation I still love you but my life. She says I am not real family .