So sometimes when my SO and so have sex, I think I'm orgasming, because I have a little spasm and a little tiny bit of pleasure, but not how I imagine an orgasm. He usually makes fun of me (in a nice way) that I orgasm all the time. It's never clitoral so I don't know. I have given myself an orgasm from playing with my clit, but I feel like it has to be pressed on kind of hard. Any advice or thoughts?