can't get myself off! 😩

Alrighty, time for the full blown honesty here. I'm 18 and only recent started masturbating. I've had sex literally ONCE in my life and it's quite recent. But anyway, I can't get myself off. I'll be playing around with my clit and making the motions etc. and get some sensations (my legs and stuff start tingling like woah) and then poof gone and I have to start over for a good 5 minutes. I haven't ( or I  think I havent) ever climaxed and it's FRUSTRATING. And also, it's so like...dry? I can't get any good lubrication going on down there unless well...someone is getting me going themselves. I just need help ladies!Â