Hey so, I'm looking for open-minded people to answer a question I have been worried about. I'm on birth control and my friend and I hardly see each other, we're long distance, and when he came to see me we had sex quite a bit. Now I'm somewhat late and worrying. I just tend to freak out before anything has really happened. But I'm conflicted cause I CANNOT have a baby right now, but my bf is completely against abortion; I wouldn't be able to pay for one. I wouldn't want my parents to know; they're not against it, but I'm pretty quiet about that part of my life. I'm not sure. Just confused about what I should do if this becomes a thing. I'm 21, still in college. He's older. I'm deeply in love with him and don't want to lose him.