Ugh. I'm so frustrated right now. My fiancé and I are the first of our friend group to get married. And as none of these people are even engaged yet, they have not had much exposure to weddings/wedding etiquette at all. Our wedding has a 150 person cap. That is the max for the venue we have chosen. For that reason, we are limiting +1s to cohabitating, or 1+ years together. But a couple of my fiancé's groomsmen informed me last night that they had already invited girls. ....they weren't gonna get a plus one. Neither of them is in a serious relationship and I'm not using up the few remaining spots of the 150 on people I don't know and who don't know me. My fiancé's family alone takes up more than half the spots available, and I have close friends I still want to invite, but can't if these girls are taking my last spots. I really don't want to come across as a bitch, but if I didn't give you a plus one, I feel like it's really rude to just invite somebody anyway. Especially since I know for a fact one of them is doing it to try and show up his ex, who is one of my bridesmaids. How do I talk to them about this? I'm trying my hardest not to be a bridezilla. Should I just give in? We're just basically maxed out. The venue won't allow anybody else.