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I found out at my 11 week scan that my baby didn't have a hb . I didn't understand bc I wasn't cramping or bleeding. This is my first pregnancy. I went to another place to check again & they were right, I lost my angel baby at 8 weeks 4 days. The baby is still in me 😞 it's been exactly 3 weeks today, I would've been 11 weeks 4 days, it's killing me knowing they're still dead inside me . But what is hurting the most is as I still have my baby in me not living anymore, my brother told me to make sure I don't get pregnant again bc as he stated "Do you wanna go through this again?" . It's not even over yet for me & I'm having my heartbroken every day that it's with me . He doesn't want me to get pregnant again but I feel like that's not his right to say that to me. I just lost my angel baby. I'm not wanting a baby rn but maybe in a few weeks . It's just killing me . Here's my little baby 💔

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Take some time to let your heart heal, and then if youre actively trying to concieve, keep trying.  You have every right to be a mom. :) pray for comfort and peace knowing your little angel is in heaven. :)

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This happens to so many women. I hate to say it's "normal" because there's NOTHING normal about it. But you are not alone in your loss. If it's in your heart to try again once you've healed you try again and respectfully tell your brother to mind his own business. Don't give up if it's not in your own heart to give up. Take comfort in knowing many women share in your loss. Me included and I'm back in the saddle (so to speak) trying for our rainbow baby. I'm very sorry for your loss.

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When I was 18 I went through literally the exact same thing at 11 weeks I found out the baby had died at 6 but my body didn't miscarry yet I got a d&c schedulrd for that Monday but sat I did miscarry point is I was so crushed it was my first pregnancy even though it was unplanned I still wanted that baby I quit smoking started eating healthy did everything I could think of. After that I couldn't even look at other pregnant women without being so upset i would cry, well I got put on the birth control impalanon which I was on 9 months before I had it removed I had it removed den of 2008 for pregnant in April of 2008 and now I have an amazing 7 year old son. I miss my first angel baby every day but when I look at my son I'm thankful things worked out the way they did because then he wouldn't be here and I can't imagine a minute of my life without him. When your ready try again it will happen and I'm sure at the end you'll have everything you ever wanted. I am very sorry about your loss

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I'm so sorry you are going through this 💔

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