I am not sharing the pics of my twins with any distant family members or with friends. I know their intention is to comment on their size. My twins couldn't have come out healthier. They were 5.13 and 5.7 with no nicu time. People don't understand. They compare my babies with single babies. How can twins be 8 or 9 lbs like other babies in the family? Our twins are the first so no one knows what it is to carry those babies until 35+2.

I couldn't tolerate a friend's torture of asking for pics so I shared one with her. And they don't look under weight at all. They have picked up so well, no one can tell they are 35 weekers. And she commented saying 'they need to be taken care of very well dear, they look weak'. I'm like wtf? How can she pass such reckless comments? And I'm their mother, why wouldn't I care? For heavens sake, they are not weak. What the hell does weak mean? I'm so pissed and it's not ending here. Everyone's asking if they are small. Of course they will be smaller than single babies but what matters is not their health? Why compare? These ladies are just dumb and jealous and what not!!! God give them some brains. Sorry too much rant but so pissed.