Anyone else STILL struggling with a name?

I'm actually getting so worked up over this. I'm 35 weeks and we still haven't decided a name. I've always wanted my grandpa's name to be my son's middle name if I ever had one and now that I am having one it's tradition on my boyfriend's side that the first son gets their dad's first as a middle name. So instead of James it has to be Justin. My boyfriend doesn't want any other name but Andre and I don't think Andre Justin sounds good at all, but maybe Andre James. It just sucks that 1. He's getting my boyfriend's family's last name (which is what I want) 2. He's getting my boyfriend's first name as a middle name, 3. My boyfriend is dead set on Andre. Like where is my role in this?! I'm the one who wanted a son, he wanted a daughter. Hormones have me going crazy over this. I'd be fine if it was Andre James, but Andre Justin just does not work for me :(