Why Does it Still Hurt?!

Question

So my BF and I have tried several times to have sex but it never really happened because it hurt too much. (I have a narrow vagina according to my GYN)

The other night we had sex and after a while, and me biting my pillow in pain trying to just deal with it, it finally went all the way in and it didn't hurt anymore and felt normal.

However, we went to have sex last night (used lube, I was wet, whatever) and it hurt again so much that we had to stop and I couldn't do it. I don't get why, when I got a PAP Smear, I barely felt the Speculum and it wasn't painful, just uncomfortable. But when I have sex, I feel like everything is being ripped. I don't even really bleed that much during sex either...

What's wrong?!

Answer

I also have a narrow vagina and I had the same problem. So I just sucked it up and had sex. To this day when my husband goes to put it in it hurts for about a min and then it's fine.

Answer

it was the same for me and the pain went away after about a week of having sex. if we go too long without having sex then it hurts again just at first, but now it's more of a welcome pain. 😊😊

took us three days to have sex the first time and eventually he just had to shove it in and I just tried to think about anything other than what's going on down there lmao

Why Does it Still Hurt?!

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