Have any of you just wanted to give up on having a wedding all together? I feel so helpless, with not finding the perfect spot for it, and it's only going to be family so 25 people and under. And I don't know I've been trying since January to find things I like in order to have a wedding, but I don't feel like having a wedding anymore. But I can't elope without my family due to important reasons. Ugh. Just don't know, I get married on January 18th, 2017 and I don't have anything for the wedding yet.