My advice to newbies: take your time TTC & enjoy it. Your guy will burn out real quick if sex becomes souly about TTC. Then, you'll get your little heart broken when he doesn't feel like TTC anymore. Trust me! It will most likely happen & it is very normal for it to take multiple months to get pregnant. So, don't get your panties on a wad if it doesn't happen your first, second, or third month. If you get stressed about it, it'll take longer to conceive. Just relax & let nature take its course. Have fun! Don't obsess over TTC. It'll literally make you sick. Enjoy your time together because you won't get that time back once you have the baby. Once you do have your baby, don't neglect your husband/boyfriend/significant other. You will experience a love like none other when you see the baby but don't forget the love you shared making that precious baby. He needs you too. I hope this helps.