Ik this is tmi but I'm worried and confused

Ryan
Ok so I had this lump on my labia about the size of a pea a few days ago(to add I'm a virgin) . I didn't know what it was so I tried to like squeeze it to pop it cause I just thought it was a large ingrown hair or something idk. But now it's the size of a small bouncy ball and now my right labia looks twice the size of the other one.(it has like 3 pimple heads in like one and they're like purple ish from bruising I think) It's extremely painful and idk what to do I'm only 16 and if I want to go to the doctors I have to get my parents involved and that's just weird (im thinking it's just a really bad boil)