Sex after baby ?!?

When I was pregnant I looked forward to having sex after the baby was here since sex was uncomfortable while I was pregnant but now that I'm no longer pregnant and My baby is now 2months old I'm just exhausted by the end of the day so my question is how do you get it back I know my poor SO isn't too happy by this but I can't help it . I'd rather sleep than have sex and when I do want to the baby will be wide awake and fussy and on top of that I don't necessarily feel attractive when I have to wear breast pads all the time or else I'll end up leaking on him and not to mention I'm not too happy with my body 😩 how do you make it work ? How the hell do you get it back or am I the only one going through this 😪