A letter to her
My BF's baby mom wrote me asking how serious me and my BF are and telling me how she's engaged to my boyfriend of two years and we are going to be fucking the same man so we can be friends. She told me he has STD's which I felt was a huge lie since I recently was tested and I was fine. So I confronted him and he swore up and down that nothing is going on between them. So I see this photo of them two over the weekend at a family function and he's kissing her. Why was she there ?? It was from The same day I told him to check her and stop sending me messages trying to start drama in our relationship. I told him to handle it or I will & he assured me that he would. He acted like he was so pissed off at her for trying to come in between us. So today when I saw the photo I just text him and said FUCK YOU & he wants to know why. He has no idea what my issue is but can probably figure it out himself when he goes on Social media. Everything has come out in the open from my recent speculations. This is what I wrote to respond to her and I'm wondering if I should send it or change anything.
"Hello. At first I was thinking is this a joke? You can't be serious but I'm glad you told me this info. I know you two aren't engaged but I now know there is definitely more going on than he's making it seem. I did know about you but not in the sense that you two were still together and/or involved. I've known about you since we've started our relationship 2 years ago as the mother of his children and nothing more than a mistake that trapped him. He's led me to believe that you two co parent, don't get along and don't discuss things unless it involves the children. To my knowledge he made it clear that you were very aware of our relationship and was actually jealous of what him and I had so you can imagine my surprise getting your message. I originally thought you were acting delirious trying to start drama so I confronted him about it. Of course he had the audacity to lie to my face and keep up this charade of how you mean nothing to him and he's all about me. This was just on Saturday when we went out to eat and buy parts for his car.. I believed him because I figured I'll trust my man before I trust an outsider and to me, you were just a jealous ex. It wasn't until I saw a photo this morning posted from that very same day at his cousin's going away party that I believed he's really out here trying to play me and have me looking foolish. To answer your question, We were pretty serious but if he lied to me, I know he's gotta be lying to you and making it seem like it was nothing going on when it was a whole lot of everything. We were planning for a family, talking bout marriage and I was actually pregnant twice && miscarried. Though devastated I now take it as a sign that it was for the best. I did get tested. I don't have any STD's so best of luck to you. We won't be "fucking the same man". I know my worth and I know if he's been a manipulative backstabbing liar for the past 2 years, you can keep that sorry excuse of a man. You can deal with him running around cheating on you. Not me. He won't have me looking crazy. I know I can do much better than all the games and double lives he's playing over there. If I'm devastated and heartbroken, I can only imagine how you feel. Wish you the best of luck. Keep your head up."
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