I'm 33, my fiance is 31. We are trying for baby #1.

I have pcos. I'm overweight but I'm trying to fix that.

Here's my rub.... I have been ttc since I was 17 (with 2 different partners). Not one hint of a bfp, let alone a pregnancy. I was trying to keep it light and wait for it to happen, expecting it to happen naturally. I had tests years ago and no issues other than pcos. They will do more tests in a few months time. My partner has super swimmers. He has ĺooked at girl's in the past and they got pregnant lol He has 4 children but none with me.

I'm pulling my hair out. I'm doing all I can. I have metformin, conception vitamins for both of us, opks ready and sex is great and more often than not... I'm losing weight slowly. It's getting harder to keep positive and optimistic. Fully involved in getting pregnant now. Each month, my period comes and I cry for days. Admittedly, I haven't always been regular but I have been for the last few months.

I'm 8 dpo. Another week before I can test, I reckon. No symptoms though.

What more can I do? Anyone in a similar situation? Any cycle buddies?

Thanks in advance x