Love him but hurt

My boyfriend has a job and is moving into a apartment with his unemployed and live with my grandma. I start school at the end of the month so I didn't think it would be wise to start a job but I am looking for a place to live. The other day he told me that all I do is sit in my room and wait for him and that I was a loser pretty much with no life and no friends. I love him a lot and don't wanna leave but I'm just kinda pissed