Should I keep it from my husband??

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I think I'm pregnant. Too early to test but so many weird, abnormal symptoms and I have a strong feeling...
My husband wont be happy if we are pregnant. We are not deliberately TTC but he also won't buy condoms and isn't withdrawing during sex.
 Is it totally wrong for me not to say a word until I know for sure? Not exactly lying...more like keeping it to myself.

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I mean, he wasn't trying to NOT get you pregnant. I always kept it a secret utility I got a positive on a test. He can't be mad if he didn't do anything to prevent it.

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No its not wrong. Your husband is old enough to know that not using protection and also not pulling out increases the risk of pregnancy even more. Thats like not wanting to burn your hand but you keep sticking your hand on a hot stove.. Tell him and dont you dare feel like this is all YOUR FAULT

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Um, you might not have agreed to actively try to pregnancy yet, but you took all the steps together to conceive by not preventing the natural result!

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Lol doesn't wear condoms doesn't pull out, he is either really dumb when it comes to the basic knowledge of how to make a baby or he simply doesn't care if you get pregnant.

But yes, don't say anything until you know for sure. If you tell him you think you might be and then end up not being pregnant it will cause unnecessary stress.

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I agree with Anna on this he has to be really dumb or simply doesnt care and if you are then he shouldnt get mad because  he didnt use protection so thats his fault.

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I think it's ok to keep it to yourself until you're sure. If he refuses to do anything to prevent it, it is more his fault than yours so he has no right to be unhappy with you. I hope you have someone to talk to and he is not controlling you. Good luck, girl.

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I kept it from my fiancé when I think I'm pregnant. So far, it's only been scares, so I'm glad I didn't worry him. The one time I did get a positive, I told him right away, but I lost the baby a couple months later.

Should I keep it from my husband??

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