Were you immediately attracted to your spouse or SO?

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I know the first moment I saw my SO, I was instantly attracted to him. In my previous relationships, I had to form an attraction. I'm interested to see if you were instantly attracted.

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Ohh yeah😍, I was in a long term relationship at the time so of course I didn't act on it, but I always thought he was the hottest guy I'd ever seen (not kidding). Every time my ex and I hung out with him, he and I clicked so well, we became really close, but little did I know that he was in love with me the whole time. He waited 4 years for me to break up with my ex patiently, and he never said a word until we broke up. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I am so grateful for our history because our relationship wouldn't be the same if we didn't get to be good friends beforehand. 💗💗💗

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Nope. I blew him off for a month. Finally said I'd go on a date (to be nice). He was my brother in laws best friend. Well 2 years later we married. Haha.

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I thought he was cute the moment I saw him. In 6th grade. Lmao

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Not really. He wasn't my type at all. But, I finally gave him a chance, and he felt like family from the very beginning. I guess the attraction had to sort of develop. We've been married almost 17 years. 😊

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Nope. I noticed him but thought he wasn't interested in me so I didn't think of him that way. We were friends for a while before anything happened or either of us caught feelings but when we did it was so natural it felt like it was inevitable.

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Just moved and started 11th grade at a new school. Walking in the hallways getting my bearings and got that itchy feeling of being stared at. I look back and see this guy staring at my ass. LOL. Instant "Mmm" moment. He was the hottest guy I had ever seen. Weirded me out a bit and I tried to lose him in the hallways. Walk into my first period class, the only seat left was right next to him. 😁 Took about a year of friendship and now we've been together 13 years and married for 9 of those.

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I thought he was hot, but I also thought he looked like a douchebag on my first sight of him.

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Yessss!! As soon as I saw him, instant attraction.

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Oh yeah, my hubs is super hot! I remember the first time I saw him. He walked in with his friends at the place I bartended at and I literally did a double take. Then proceeded to stare- open mouthed- while making drinks for my other patrons. Looking back, it was absolutely shameful but thankfully he was flattered 😂

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My husband is gorgeous! But he had a weird personality that took me a couple of years to adore. Ha ha

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