Me and my boyfriend of 4+ years have been fighting for the past 2 days about the fact that he's always choosing his friends over me. I'm not a jealous girlfriend and I never object to him going with them or keep him from seeing them. Lately though he doesn't wanna go anywhere with me, never wants to do anything fun, and is taking them with him to a show, that I assumed for months we were going to together, instead of me. Like he doesn't want me tagging along, I can't meet them there nothing. He's telling me I need to find other people to go with. But the rest of my friends start college that week and won't be able to make it. He got mad because I told him it's weird to not want me there at all and it makes me suspicious as to why he doesn't even wanna see me there. Now he's saying I don't trust him and he can never make me happy and that I've been thinking about breaking up with him. Like dude I didn't even mention breaking up. And honestly the only time that subject gets brought up is when I talk about going to school. He's so hurt in the fact that I'm going to college. I'm only going an hour away from where he lives and I've tried convincing him to move there and get a better job. My mom's even told him she'd help us get an apartment. But he hasn't even tried looking for a job or anything. I just don't know what to do. I'm not ready for us to end. But I'm tired of being overlooked by his friends.

What should I do?