I am nowhere near having sex😭

I will be 6 weeks postpartum on saturday and i am so surprised that there are people having sex at 6 weeks. My vagina is super sensitive, my clit is swollen and my vaginal wall is still hanging low, i had a forceps delivery and had an episiotomy but also tore in places. My vagina looks nothing like it did before and certainly is in no state to be having sex😳 that would just be so painful, how are ladies having sex the now?