So I've been fooling around w this guy for about 4 years now. We've never done anything and he's been more than respectful about me not wanting to have sex. But about a couple months ago we finally had sex......and it was boring asf. He's really nice. He drives an 45 min to see me whenever I want, he's polite, and we have the perfect friends w benefits relationship but he's not good at sex! What do I do ☹️☹️😑