Masturbating?

Question

I am 18 and I haven't really ever masturbated before. It's just something I've never really thought of doing. I have been sexually active for a couple months but I have never orgasmed before. My boyfriend gets frustrated because he can't make me cum. I want to start masturbating but I don't even know where to start. Do you guys have any tips or tricks? Should I invest in a vibrator or a dildo?

Answer

Im 25 and ive never used a vibrator or dildo. And also, you should tell your bf that its not as easy for women to orgasm as it is fore, and something like 40 percent of women never orgasm in their life sp its nothing for him to get mad about. Having orgasms takes practice, and patience for most women. I would say for you to try masterbating but to just use ur fingers for clit stimulation.

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I have to have clitoral stimulation during sex for me to get off. Most of the time though, my hubby goes downtown on me before and that 99% of the time does the trick. I can use my fingers and that will do the work though it sometimes (more times than not) take forever. I have a rabbit vibrator and it's the greatest thing since sliced bread. It does the trick every time in less then 5 minutes. And with small kids, I dont have more than 5 minutes to spare sometimes.

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I can really only have an orgasm during sex if I'm on top (and not always) or if I give myself clitoral stimulation during. It's much harder for women to orgasm than men during sex. Masturbating is a little easier because we are in control and what not. Clitoral stimulation I seriously think is key. It's what gets you where you need to go.

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