I have t seen it much here, but I have seen it and I'm sorry but it's really annoying. I can't stand women who use being married to someone in the military as their staple in life. I see women on here trying to use it for sympathy, basically trying to do the whole "we dont see each other much" as a card to play for pitty. My husband was in the Marines for 5 years and I'm now in the military as well. We've been around the "military way of life" if you want to call it that for a while and we are currently in peace time, yes sometimes they may have to go to the field for week or month possibly a little longer but that's just training. When anyone deploys it's normally for as long as 6 months-12 months on the common side. Yes the time away sucks but don't try to use it as pitty card. Stand strong, your marriage shouldn't be what makes you. What's worse is I've seen some women use that for pitty and then go screw with a random guy on the side while their spouse is gone. For one that's just wrong and two if you're going to do that don't even try to play the pitty card because you're getting something from somewhere when he's gone. I don't see why so many can't just wait for their spouse to come home, it sucks to have them gone but it will be okay, just try to find things to do to keep yourself busy (other than another guy to mess around with)