I'm not miserable

Everyone I think has a right to want what they want and not have to go down the routes other people did with there chooses in pregnancy.
I do not want a photo shoot or a baby shower or really any fuss and I certainly don't want people telling me I should do this and that.. If I wanted to know something I would ask, so why is it now certain family members think I'm miserable 😢 
I don't see why I always have to justify what I would like... Am I being petty or do other people have the same issues ???