Going off the pill

Victoria • 12.4.19 💖
I just wanted some insight from fellow ladies, and all of my friends are against me going off my pill so I want some people to talk about it with ! What better than an entire community of women ! I've been on the pill for almost six years now, and it's finally gotten to a point where I cannot continue on it. I eat constantly (with a great weight gain), feel insane, cry all the time,and  have no sex drive. I am not trying to get pregnant whatsoever, but condoms really irritate my vulvodyna no matter lamb skin or latex. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we've always relied on the pill and withdrawal. Now it's going to be strictly withdrawal and using this app to figure out when to be careful. Is this app good for this? Any other suggestions? 
Thanks,
A desperate girl in need !!!!