Should i divorce?

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My husband lied about having a snapchat account. He had told me that he didn't have one after he deleted his last one when I caught him messaging a lot of women. Ever since my husband and I met we have always had problems because of his friends cousin but he always made me feel like I was stupid for thinking anything even though I know she likes him she's disrespected me when I was pregnant laughed about it when I miscarried.. I practically begged him to stop talking to her and his excuse was that it's not his fault because she's always with his friend.. They're messaging again.. And I don't have no actual proof that he's physically cheated but I feel like he is.. I feel like I will never compare to her.. She's always been there since we met.. I don't know what to do please help

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I would . If he wants to talk to other women I'll be like okay but I'm out . I'm sorry about your miscarriage . You deserve someone better and even know you are married you don't have to stay with him. Sometimes things are not meant to be.

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You should really weigh the pros and cons of your time together. Then decide if this is something worth fighting for. You can find a marriage counselor to help you guys better communicate or you can leave him and find someone who knows how to be honest and respect your feelings from the jump. It's a hard choice but only you can make it. We don't know everything.... Good luck

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There's a difference between a one time mistake and a lifestyle. If it's just his way to lie to you and hide things constantly then you need to move on, one way or another. Dodge that bullet while you don't have kids with him. It's a thousand times more complicated when you have a family. You deserve better, but that means you have to show him you do. If you allow him to live however he wants and still be with him, you're telling him it's OK. When people show you who they are, believe them.

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Sounds like there is a lot of excuses on his part and insecurities on yours. Before jumping straight to divorce, let him know that you are feeling that way and tell him what you need for the marriage to be saved/work. It seems a bit drastic to throw away a marriage because of a feeling, especially if you are insecure-the imagination can run wild sometimes. If he isn't disgusted by a woman who laughs at the death of his unborn child, he needs a serious kick in the ass and to grow up. Maybe counseling would help lay it all out without the excuses, and the counselor can help him see what a douche he is being.

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I don't think you should divorce him just yet.  I think you should look more thoroughly, don't jump the gun at all until you've found necessary evidence that he's cheating on you, hiding a snapchat account is a start.  But like I said, don't jump the gun unless you got proof or else you'll always have what if. And don't think any woman is better than you, he married you, meaning he picked you out of everyone else including that woman. Lastly, fight for your man, let that woman know she's crossing a line, give her a warning she won't forget, and straighten out your husband, believe it or not, guys like when girls fight for their men, to an extent though, don't end up in jail. So put your Boss Bihhh panties on and don't throw a marriage unless you are never turning back to it!

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Hey guys she's found no proof he's done anything tho! Yes I believe he's wrong for talking to this other girl but please before u do anything so rash as divorce talk it out first !!!

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Do the same. See how he likes it

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I dont think you should divorce maybe separate and tell him how it makes you feel and its disrespectful to you as his wife he should put your feelings first i would just leave and give him 2 choices her or you bottom line i wouldnt jump to divorce but i would absolutely put my foot down and let him know you wont put up with it make him see what hell be missing if he dont stop

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I don't think asking a group of people you don't know whether or not you should get a divorce is the wisest choice.

Should i divorce?

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