When looking for a gyno who do you prefer a male or female doctor?

Jenni • 22 yr old. NYC. Wellness professional.
I'm in search for a new doctor. I went to the gynecologist my doctor recommended. Worst first experience ever. I went for my first check up and to get an IUD, never gave me results on a cyst they found and when I asked for an opinion about birth control the physician assistant (not even the doctor) told me to pick whatever I liked... I HAD NO IDEA WHAT MY OPTIONS WERE! (Thanks google) I saw different assistants/ doctors each visit and they forgot to give me a medication before inserting my IUD. 
Now I'm looking for a new doctor, but I'm not sure what to look for. Yelp is being both helpful and scary 🙄 Ladies in Queens,NY I'm opened to recommendations.. Or ladies I'm opened to opinions or tips for a better experience 

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