Spotting?

So the past couple nights me and my boyfriend have had sex. The first night I woke up with a little bit of dried blood in my shorts and I didn't bleed the rest of the day. Then this morning when I woke up I was still bleeding when I went pee and I have cramps. I'm not on birth control and I've never spotted before. So I'm not sure if I'm bleeding from sex or if I'm having a miscarriage (we had unprotected sex a week or two ago and I did a bunch of natural stuff to avoid pregnancy) or if it's because I'm getting off the ovulating train or or if I'm pregnant or what. Any help would be much appreciated. ❤️