Abuse ?

Me & my SO are a really playful couple, it's one of the unique parts of what makes our relationship but sometimes he hits me a little too hard or in my face after I tell him not too and doesn't really seems to care afterwards. Most times he tells me to shut up & take it or that I'm being a cry baby but I don't think he realizes his own strength. I'm 5'5, 180 at best & he's 6'2 235-240. Am I being dramatic ladies or should I start to feel concerned ? We were high school sweethearts that reconnected. We've been married a year, together for 8