Lame?

Question

So I had my bachelorette party. And my fiances sister came and said "you're about to do a body shot off that guy" That guy was on his bachelor party and his wedding was going to be on the same day mine is. Anyways his group of guys were already begging me to and I told them no many times because I would not like it if my fiance did a body shot off another girl. They called me lame and I told them I'm not lame with my fiancé but in this scenario if that makes me lame then I guess I am. Anyways my fiances sister literally kept begging me to do it like 10 times telling me I was going to. Asked why not. I told her why and she said well he doesn't have to know. Like really? So yeah start my marriage off with lies. This really irritated me. This is just how I feel about it though. I have no desire to be in physical contact like that with other men and that's not the type of bachelorette party I was shooting for ya know? Anyways the rest of the time was amazing. I just want to know would you take a body shot off another guy on your bachelorette party? Would your fiancé care? If so would you just never tell?

Edit: in no way am I shaming or thinking bad of others who would. Some people don't think of that as crossing the line in a relationship. But I do. It's just not my cup of tea. Just interested in other people's responses.

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I say good on you for standing your ground, keeping your morals, and staying faithful 👌 I never understand why some people feel the need to go "crazy" on their hens/bucks party, in my eyes that night is not an excuse to be unfaithful! 
I think your fiancé is a lucky man to be with someone so loyal 😁✌️

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Good on you, you did the right thing 😃👏🏼👍🏼 that's a weird thing to encourage someone to do when they are about to marry your brother 🤔 his sister sounds like a trouble maker to me, be careful.

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You have morals and she thinks it's lame?  Keep an eye on that snake in the grass......

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Dude I totally get you. I don't understand it either. Why do people (males and females both) feel the need to go out and do things like that before they get married? Like hello they are already in a relationship, not single. Sounds like a bad way of starting out a marriage. Now if y'all agree to it beforehand, then go for it. It's just not for me and I'd be pissed if my fiancé did that as would he. Definitely something that needs to be talked about before the bachelor or bachelorette party

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I guess we're both lame! I wouldn't do shots off another man body. If I'm fixing to get married to someone then I'll do shot off his body not another man body. It's a shame that his sister didn't respect you and left it as a no. I would keep my eye out👀 girls like that usally encourage other to cheat. Lord know what she can tell him behind your back.

But congarts on the marriage! And good for you for standing your grounds!

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So you chose not to dishonor your future husband when encouraged by his own sister? Gee, how "lame." 
Lame is pressuring someone to do something against their better judgement. Lame is encouraging an action that could upset your own brother. Better keep an eye on that sis in law.
Good for you for standing your ground. Your fiance is a lucky man to have such a faithful partner! 👏👏👏

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You didn't do anything wrong and I don't see what you said as judgmental. I wouldn't do it either, I've never understood the whole mentality that bachelor/bachelorette parties are your last chance to cut loose.....just no. If you're having a bachelorette party then you've already made the commitment so you should just keep your hands and other body parts off anyone else.

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It's okay to be "Lame." I'm "Boring" lol. My husband and I have been together 12 years now and the reason why he asked me out was because I was "boring" compared to all the other girls. I didn't (and still don't) drink alcohol, take drugs, smoke, party, etc..and neither did he.

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I would never. But I found out yesterday my guy ha been traveling over 30miles to see a girl and even asked her to dinner telling her how she deserved to not work hard and all of that. I have no doubt he would take a body shot off another lady. So since my discovery yesterday our wedding and all is on hold and I don't wear my engagement ring until further notice. But even then I still would never take a body shot off another man.

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You're not the lame. Everyone else has zero respect for you and your marriage. So sorry. Good for you for standing your ground .👏🏼💙 My husband went to a titty bar for his Bach party and I almost ended it! No fucking joke. Never will I ever understand the need to go buck wild before getting married. So to answer your question, yes I'd have a HUGEEEEEE problem with that

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